people will always call out people for saying “fuck skinny bitches” but when the diet commercial comes on, when the fat jokes are being made, when conversations about how fat people are detriments to society are underway, when a size 6 expects her size 26 friend to go with her to the mall even though there ain’t shit for her fat ass there, when girls are saying “i can’t cut my hair short because my face would look fat” & “when i learned that drinking alcohol could make you gain weight i felt like my life was over!!!”, and when family/friends/TOTAL STRANGERS are saying “we’re just worried about your health” y’all STAY quiet
because body-shaming someone who “doesn’t deserve it” would be the worst thing you could do, right?
This is hands down the best worded argument about this topic that I’ve seen.
People love to throw up “DON’T BODY SHAME SKINNY GIRLS TO PROP UP FAT GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!” Yet how often do they care when people act like being fat is the worst, most shameful thing a person (especially a woman) could be?
Also, saying “real women have curves” or whatever else DOES NOT HARM SKINNY GIRLS, nobody is going to see a traditionally small/skinny/fit woman and be repulsed because they can also appreciate the aesthetics of a heavy woman. Pretty sure I have never in my entire life heard a story about a skinny girl who was dumped for a fat girl.
Yet people are REPULSED by the thought of dating a fat girl and I have heard a zillion and one stories about women being turned down for dates, dumped, etc, because they are too heavy. Even when they are much, much smaller than me.
That sort of thing absolutely kills your confidence. Being called skinny in a world that fetishizes skinny women is not an insult.
FWIW I personally don’t insult thin women because I still want to be one someday, but I will never tell a fat woman that she can’t make “fat girls are prettier” style comments because it’s “just as bad” to body shame traditionally attractive body types. Nope. Nope nope nope.
Christy Mack released the statement above on her Twitter today about the abuse she endured Friday by the hands of her boyfriend, MMA fighter, Jon Koppenhaver. She said this isn’t the first time it’s happened but it’s the never been this bad. He spent 1 year in jail in 2012 for assault at a night club. My heart and well wishes go out to Christy Mack. I wish her a quick recovery and I hope they find this asshole and serve him the justice he deserves. If a loved one abuses you mentally or physically, they most likely will not stop. Get out while you can. 1-800-799-SAFE or click Chat on the upper right hand side.
Cops are looking for him and Christy is in the hospital but he has the audacity to tweet 18 hrs ago:
and also directly to her:
And there are still people who are blaming Christy and believing this dirt ball:He’s trying to make himself look like the victim. “Oh I had an engagement ring” “I love you and hope you’re okay.”
He’s absolute garbage.
You’re in our hearts, Christy. ❤️🙏
This is what happens when women select alpha males, they either get pumped and dumped or they get the shit beaten out of them. The problem is that this idiot fell for someone who was being fucked by alpha males every day on film no less Men, if you don’t want to lose your head and end up doing something you regret like falling for and beating the shit out of porn stars; don’t fucking date them, in fact don’t date anyone who works in the sex industry. You can’t turn a whore or a slut into a housewife
You are the lowest form on scum on this Earth and you need to stay away from all women.
Na, see like this tool I stay far away from hypergamous latter climbers. Either that or I invest little to no emotion in them. The dudes a tool, he fell for the townbike. Condemn me all you want but evolutionary psychology comes into play. Would I beat a woman? No, why? Because no woman is worth losing your head for, which is why I’m a MGTOW.
You are truly terrifying. You’re looking at these pictures of this beaten woman, reading all the details about how he beat her, he stabbed her, he dehumanized her, tried to rape her, and all you have to say is that he was stupid for wasting his time on a sex worker and calling her a slut. Your lack of empathy and sympathy basically indicates you’re a fucking sociopath. Like I said, stay away from all women if you don’t think this is appalling. Please go die a horrible and slow death alone.
Again I don’t take vacuous threats and advice from feminist bigots and solipsists like yourself. Yes it was absolutely his fault for beating her (even though it isn’t domestic violence because they weren’t dating at the time, it’s breaking an entering and assault and battery) I’m advising men not to fall for sex workers or hypergamous ladder climbers like Christy Mack. So that violence like this can be prevented in the future. Also there’s more to the story then she lead on, and only the investigators can tell us what really happened. And if you don’t understand that you’re a moron.
You. Are. A. Sociopath. Again, all you have to say are insults towards her. You know what will prevent this kind of shit from happening? Men learning that they have no right to beat the shit out of women. The fact that she is a pornstar has nothing to do with this. And fuck you you fucking hypocrite-you’re denouncing her profession as a pornstar WHILE RUNNING A PORN BLOG. You are the moron.
And I don’t give a flying fuck if there’s “more to the story” HE BEAT THE FUCK OUT OF HER. He STABBED HER. He tried to RAPE HER. There is no fucking excuse for that, and you are the moron and the shitstain of a human being for trying to derail this from what it is: a disgusting example of male entitlement and domestic violence (it is domestic violence because they used to date you moron). I’m blocking and reporting you, and I hope to god no woman comes near you for her sake.
Truly terrifying. I spent 5 min looking at this guy’s blog and it just gives the creepiest vibe, like he posts porn of women crying and covered in semen and it’s interspersed with anti-feminist comments. Reads like a rapist’s blog. :/
It’s one of the most misogynist things out there.
dictating how a woman chooses to express herself sexually is misogynistic
it’s also misogynistic to assume that all women undertake a sub position
it’s also heterosexist to assume that all bdsm is heterosexual
Sometimes your babygirl acts out because she doesn’t want to admit how much she needs you, Daddy …
I will reblog this every time I see it because it is my life.
little girls like me need to be told cute loving stuff all the time or else they’ll get sad and feel neglected and that’s not okay
And then a bath with rubber ducks and daddy pouring water from a cup to wash out the shampoo.
The paradox of being a sub/little.
I want all these horrible rough things and I also want all these sweet cute things.
One of the more helpful and insightful things I’ve seen about depression/suicide in the last couple of days.
Alright, i’m gonna sit down and basically explain the situation in this ask so everyone of my followers knows why i’m so pissed.
Michael Brown, a 17 - 18 year old african american boy was unlawfully shot (8-10 times supposedly) by police in St Louis, Missouri on saturday, august 9th, 2014. He was unarmed, and had done nothing to attract suspicion other than the fact that he was black. His body was left in the street for 4 hours. (beware: somewhat graphic image linked)
There are several claims from witnesses (see: Dorian Johnson’s account and video [HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING UP ON HIS ACCOUNT, ITS VERY SPECIFIC] — Brown’s friend who experienced the situation first hand, La’Toya Cash and Phillip Walker— Ferguson residents nearby the incident), that fall together in generally close claims. However, the only one who’s claim seems out of place is the police officer’s who shot Brown. Who, by the way, is put off on paid administrative leave AND who’s name remained under anonymity for his safety (However, attorney Benjamin Crump is looking for a way to force release his name). He claims that Brown began to wrestle the officer for his gun and tried attacking him after he told Brown and his friend Dorian Johnson (22) to “get the f*ck on the sidewalk”.
According to Johnson, after a minor confrontation on the officer’s part where he grabbed Brown by the neck and then by the shirt, the officer pulled his gun on Brown and shot him at point blank range on the right side of his body. Brown and Johnson were able to get away briefly and started running. However, Brown was shot in the back, supposedly disabling him from getting very far. He turned around with his arms in the air and said “I don’t have a gun, stop shooting!” By this point, Brown and the officer were face to face as the cop shot him several times in the face and chest until he was finally dead. Johnson ran to his apartment and by the sound of his account, seemingly had some sort of panic attack. Later he emerged from his home to see Brown still laying in the streets. People were gathered with their cellphones, screaming at the police.
According to msnbc, the police refuse to interview Johnson at all, despite his amazing courage to come forward. They didn’t wanna hear it. They only listened to the cop’s account of it all and were vague with the media on what they thought happened. They’ve also refused to commit to a timeline in releasing autopsy results and other investigation information.
Numerous rumors are sweeping around such as Brown stealing candy from a QuickTrip, the store he emerged from calling the cops on him, Brown reaching for a gun, Brown attacking the cop first, ect. But these have all been debunked. (I know a lot of these have been debunked, but im having a hard time finding sources. if anyone could help out and link some legit ones id be SO grateful)
The event in and of itself was terrible, but now it has escalated beyond belief. Around 100 or more people, mostly black, went to the police station to protest peacefully. Things quickly turned bad as martial law got involved and authorities were bringing in K9s, tanks, heavy artillery, ect. The heavy police presence only made things worse as riots began to break out and looting and vandalism started. [ x ] [ x ] [ x ]
Now, as of very recently, the media has been banned from Ferguson. There is also a No-Fly zone above Ferguson for the reason of “ TO PROVIDE A SAFE ENVIRONMENT FOR LAW ENFORCEMENT ACTIVITIES ” as said on the Federal Aviation Commission’s website. Cop cars are lined up on the borders to prevent people from entering/leaving. Media outlets are being threatened with arrest. It completely violates our amendments and everything.
It’s becoming increasingly scary and difficult to find out whats going on over there. I’m afraid this is all the information I have, though. If anybody else knows anything about the situation, please feel free to add on or correct any mistakes i’ve made as i’m no expert on writing these things.
And as a personal favor, i’d really appreciate anyone to give this a reblog in order to spread the word. I think it’s a shame that this is going on in our own country yet so few people know about it. Help me make this topic huge and get this as much attention as possible.
D/s isn’t rough sex.
D/s isn’t whips and chains and gags and cuffs.
When we’re not fucking but making love, when we’re snuggling, laughing, talking, I know my place. I belong by his side, as an equal, as his girlfriend, and as his submissive. I belong in his arms and I belong at his feet.
I don’t have to kneel before him to know this. I don’t have to call him ‘Sir’ all the time. I don’t have to be compliant and accepting 24/7.
D/s is not a switch that we turn off or on whenever we want. It’s a state of mind.
It is not always palpable, sometimes it is hidden behind playfulness and everyday life, sometimes it takes a time-out. But it is always there.
D/s is love.
Love this SO much.
People new to D/s get so caught up in the whips and chains and the leather and theatrics, thanks in part to mainstream D/s like 50 Shades of Ugh. Those things are nice, but they’re accessories to what always exists. I can be playing video games of all things with my Dom yet still call him Master. I mean really.
My dynamic is 24/7 because I literally never stop being a sub, and HIS sub in particular. But the vast majority of our days have nothing to do with sex. The power exchange is simply always present in the background and never leaves. Ever. No matter if we’re just relaxing and joking around or if he’s actually dominating me.